Hello my friends,
I enjoy talking to you whenever I can. Today I want to talk about a subject we all must deal with “Self Esteem”! It’s not always happy or gives us a sense of excitement, it is usually an uncomfortable subject. Let’s take it on anyway!
I would like to make sure you understand, I am NOT a doctor, I do not claim to be one or act as if I have official knowledge on this subject! I am only talking from my personal observations and knowledge that I have seen on this subject. I want this clear!
I have seen many situations in my life. I have had many friends, acquaintances, business associates and others. They all have one thing in common, do they have good or bad self esteem. It is a subject we constantly deal with, our whole life through, no matter who we are. The first thing I have come to realize we will never make everyone happy, no matter what we do there are people who will not like us no matter what we do. Let it go, they are probably not worth the time anyway. Self esteem starts from the inside, please see this, for it is where it begins. We must be able to look at ourselves and see the good, bad, ugly, misconceptions, confusion, acts of humour-that’s misunderstood, personality we doubt and more that seems not to be understood by others. Yet we see…! We understand us!
Yet do others. When they don’t we start to lose our self esteem. The more they don’t, the more we lose. we seem to lose and lose and lose. Until we see, there’s no real reason for it!We are being followers, not leaders, and we should all be leading our lives with truth and understanding. Why is it so hard to do. I see so much insecurity in most of us, Why….???
Believe in yourself, no one else will unless you do it first. We all have our positives, our negatives, and our all the way around ourselves. I have been to the top of the mountain, my arms to the heavens and to the bottom with my face pushed to the dirt. Please believe in you, no matter what it takes. Don’t feel guilty for the mistakes you have made or the things you wish you did. Take today and make it yours. I know this sounds easy to say. I want you to know I have been there. I understand and I’ll be with you. Do it. What else do you have to do that will help you more. Please get it back…Your Self Esteem…!
Teddy Mueller 2007